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  • Gift on the River

    Gift on the River

    For ninety days my place of repose has been a recliner with a rustic view—a bricked fireplace reaching from floor to ceiling. Total knee replacement is settling in as a good investment. Waiting has helped me listen to the quiet call of God to more deeply align my life with Him, a story for another day perhaps. But for today, in the video below, I’d like to share a memory that came as I waited by the fireplace.

    The Treasure:
    And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. (Romans 8:28)

    If you’d rather read than watch the video, here’s the full video transcript:

    For as long as I can remember, my father had a wooden rowboat that took us to primitive sandbars changing every day by channels and tides. That’s where he taught me to swim. My father fittingly named the boat The Four Seas (S.E.A.S) since there were four of us and our last name began with “C.” Even as an adult, when I travelled back to New England we would pile in to the boat for a day at an outlying beach. My mother would pack the same picnic as when I was a child: tuna sandwiches with pickle, potato chips, homemade chocolate chip cookies, and a cooler of lemonade mixed with orange juice.

    When my father grew older, he remained a salty kind of guy and custom built his first double-station rowboat in an open lean-to on the side of his small home when he was seventy eight. I’ll always remember our lunch in that boat on the Niantic River. My dad removed his hat to thank God for our subs. As water lapped the sides of the boat, I watched him speak to the One who created beauty all around us. I asked my father for the boat that day, offering to match his best offer if he decided to sell it. Today the boat is mine—a gift

    I suppose all of us can flip back the pages of our past—chapters that represent happenings, beliefs, and choices that influence us. It may be an endearing talk on a boat or a season we want to forget, but God weaves it all into the fabric of our lives. His weaving comes with a gift greater than a boat. The gift is His the promise that He works all things together for our good if we love Him and say “yes” to His calling on our lives. With that foundation, I can’t wait until my knee is fully healed so I can get back in the boat. Wish you could join me!

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  • Trinkets and Treasures

    Claws from Maine, shells from Florida, lighthouses from North Carolina and more—these all formed my collection of salt and pepper shakers.

    My father chimed in with his not-so-subtle humor and gave me the salt and pepper set of a husband and wife couple to remind me to stick close (to his view of) my gender role in marriage. Oh please, Dad!

    These pairs of knickknacks lined my shelves and brought a smile for a while, but in time they lost their meaning. They became trinkets of little value that ended up on someone else’s shelf or in the trash.

    As I matured (sort of), I sought treasure over trinkets. The treasures I’m talking about are precious gems of the heart like relationships, security, courage, rescue, generosity, love, recovery, and faith.

    These gems of the heart cannot be bought. They awaken us to the need for safe-keeping, to the reality of a Treasure-Giver, and to the beauty of gratitude. They require special care because although they cannot be seen on a shelf, tragically, they can be placed on a shelf.

    We place treasures on a shelf when we betray a friend, shrink back from opportunity, disrespect people we love, worry, withhold resources when it’s in our power to give, refuse to take a hand when we are in over our heads, or build a wall of protection around our hearts.

    My awakening to true treasure began long ago with a decision to get to know the ultimate “Treasure-giver.” It was a dark season during which I could not imagine a future of promise and light. But God helped me navigate through darkness and revealed treasures on the other side.

    My most recent treasure came this past year. Sorrow from loss would have left me desolate. But refusing to isolate, allowing my tears to flow, resting from exhaustion, struggling through uncertainty, and reaching out for pastoral care revealed the treasure of spiritual community like I had never seen or known before.

    The care of friends, new friends, and family tenderized my cracked-open heart to receive, to be humble, to look up, and to begin the process of healing. Unusual encounters with “strangers” opened the treasure of knowing God’s limitless power to express His care for me at just the right time and in ways I least expected.

    There are trinkets and treasures, but treasures remain. We safeguard them because they don’t come easy and they open our eyes to know who the ultimate Treasure-Giver is.

    I will give you the treasures of darkness,

    riches stored in secret places

    so that you will know that I am God.

    Isaiah 45:3

    I still have some trinkets that bring a smile, but my treasures bring joy and align my heart with what really matters. What are your trinkets and treasures?